Is it safe for my children to use social media sites?

It is safe for your kids to use social media sites as long as you monitor their usage. There are parental controls you can set, permissions to grant and filters to apply within Windows and your Internet browser. If you open your Internet browser, go to the Help tab. Enter “Content Advisor” in the search box and you’ll find the resource: “Help your children browse the Internet more safely.” To make specific changes to control Internet use, there’s a helpful link “Block or allow specific Web sites.”

Once they’re on an approved site, it’s up to you to teach them to follow the guidelines recommended and to adhere to your parenting rules. In addition to checking their privacy settings, teach your kids not to “click” to install anything, ever (especially when it says you need it to watch the funny cat video). It’s a trap for downloading “bad” software that will infect your computer. You should also set the PC to routinely run current antivirus and antispyware software.

The NSPCC has published some helpful advice to help keep your children safe online. Because, just like in real life, kids need your help to stay safe. Most sites allow kids to only post messages using prewritten, generic phrases or words from a tightly restricted dictionary. Kids can’t share personal information like a home address. With younger children, experts suggest joining the site with your child and friending one another so you have visibility into their activity. It’s also a good idea to have a look at the online activity of your child’s friends and discuss with other parents what they are doing.

An additional resource for you as a parent with concerns about your children’s online safety is Wired Safety.

While the following tools help to keep your child safe, it is ultimately up to you, as the parent, to keep your child safe by directly monitoring what your child is doing on the Internet. No web controls can take the place of active parental involvement and oversight. However, if you require more information here is a parent’s guide to internet safety for kids.